Gone Fishing

      In the process of doing the last post, another habit of social media users came to mind.  And this one is almost as much of a pet peeve as the pot-stirring hate-mongering of useless postings.

FISHING.....I hate it.  I don't like it for real which is probably a disappointment to my dad, but I hate it even more online.  As much as I wish some people just wouldn't say anything, I absolutely despise it when someone puts out a little line that sounds like a problem or complaint but says nothing at all of relevance.  The whole point is to get others to respond with "what's wrong" and other, often empty, platitudes.  Some really do care and those posters are feeding on that and, in my opinion, abusing it.  Misery loves company and some fish for a bite to bring others to the pity party.  

     It shocks me how often someone will put out a little snippet of something and, then, how quickly people come out of the woodworks wanting to know what the vague post was about.  

Schadenfreude anyone?

If you have a problem or issue that you don't feel is appropriate for social media, DON'T put it on there.  If you really need positive thoughts or prayers, pick up the phone and call those who you know will care and understand  Vague posts are like an inept cry for help and attention.  I don't understand how some people can do that without feeling like they've demeaned themselves.  Don't be a drama queen.  It's boring and childish.  If you have a real and personal problem, social media certainly isn't going to the place to solve it.  I understand that there may be some circumstances where it might be appropriate on the larger scale when (and only when) the post is specific and pertinent.  If I see one more post alluding to some mysterious mental, physical or whatever issue and I would have to respond in order to find out what's going on or making sure they're okay, then I feel they didn't respect me enough to call me for help or consolation and that it must not be that big a deal.  They took the time to post and, likely, respond vaguely to all the "caring" people who want in on the mystery.  I'm sure they're covered with enough attention for me to move on the next post about gas prices or "expert" opinions on domestic and foreign policy......ugh.